Comments on: Top Reasons for Divorce http://www.medpundit.com/behavior/top-reasons-for-divorce/ Health Updates Sat, 03 Dec 2011 09:45:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Candy http://www.medpundit.com/behavior/top-reasons-for-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-44 Candy Tue, 21 Apr 2009 20:49:59 +0000 http://www.medpundit.com/?p=38#comment-44 I find that my divorce came from a combination of the bad habits, high ambitions, and mismatching abilities. I am educated and very ambitious. I love to travel and experience new things. My ex-husband on the other hand is happy having the mininum as long as he can have his beer and cig's. Four thirty pack's per week is more than enough for anyone. He didnt take part in feeding, dressing, bathing, or anything related to the care of his children. He asked me to take part in sexual acts that should not have been a part of any marriage. He was very much into sharing and bargining sex for things the kids and I needed. We could have it but I had to pay for it. I felt like a slut in more than one way. After 15 years I had enough. While he was away for three months I was happier than i had been in a long time. The kids and I were comfortable and free. We smiled every day. I found myself wondering what other men were out there. I talked to some nice people making friends that I hadnt been able to do with him here. I found myself curious about one man in particular. He was a cop, educated, and father of two girls he took care of by himself. His wife passed with an illness. We talked, took all our kids to do stuff. I felt wrong but wasnt doing anything wrong. I started having feelings for him because he was on the same level. I knew it was over with my ex by that time. I let myself slip and make a mistake one time and then confessed and the marriage was over. I regret how it happened but do not regret that it happened. He still drinks, and smokes. He was ingaged three months after we split and I have just started dating a year later. If anyone has the same issues in life I would love to hear from them. We all need someone to talk to.... Thank You Candy I find that my divorce came from a combination of the bad habits, high ambitions, and mismatching abilities. I am educated and very ambitious. I love to travel and experience new things. My ex-husband on the other hand is happy having the mininum as long as he can have his beer and cig’s. Four thirty pack’s per week is more than enough for anyone. He didnt take part in feeding, dressing, bathing, or anything related to the care of his children. He asked me to take part in sexual acts that should not have been a part of any marriage. He was very much into sharing and bargining sex for things the kids and I needed. We could have it but I had to pay for it. I felt like a slut in more than one way.

After 15 years I had enough. While he was away for three months I was happier than i had been in a long time. The kids and I were comfortable and free. We smiled every day. I found myself wondering what other men were out there. I talked to some nice people making friends that I hadnt been able to do with him here. I found myself curious about one man in particular. He was a cop, educated, and father of two girls he took care of by himself. His wife passed with an illness. We talked, took all our kids to do stuff. I felt wrong but wasnt doing anything wrong. I started having feelings for him because he was on the same level. I knew it was over with my ex by that time. I let myself slip and make a mistake one time and then confessed and the marriage was over. I regret how it happened but do not regret that it happened. He still drinks, and smokes. He was ingaged three months after we split and I have just started dating a year later.

If anyone has the same issues in life I would love to hear from them. We all need someone to talk to….

Thank You
Candy

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